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20/20 term used to express normal perfect visual acuity (the clarity or sharpness of vision) measured at a distance of 20 feet. … If you have 20/100 vision, it means that you must be as close as 20 feet to see what a person with normal vision can  see at 100 feet.

Interesting so does that mean this is the year of perfect sight. Maybe it is for you.maybe you see the world a lot more clearly. maybe not. sometimes the sight isn’t the problem. sometimes it’s your perspective that’s the issue. I mean to say we all look at things differently. I see a pump and I can instantly break it down in my head my daughter sees a pump and all she sees is a paper weight . I see a spreadsheet with numbers and all I see are ones and zeros my wife sees families and businesses. she can interrupt those numbers differently than I can. which is the great thing about life and it’s the reason we all need each other. more importantly it’s the reason we should respect and listen to each others point of view even if we don’t agree. and I’m sure we don’t agree on everything. sometimes in life you have to take a step back and try to see your life from a different point of view. we get this tunnel vision and sometimes that’s ok but laser focus on one thing will cloud other things in you life and I’m definitely guilty of this even today. I don’t know what this year of perfect vision has in store for me or mine. it’s the first year that I will be a dad all year. it’s a year that I’ll see my baby girl grow rapidly. who knows maybe I’ll go gray this year. maybe I’ll win the lottery again. maybe I’ll gain new friends and hopefully lose none. maybe it’s the year I’ll finally like olives . this year is like a newborn baby full of possibilities. you may ask what if all the things I’ve done could be erased? what if the hole inside my heart could be filled?
how much money how much time would it take to be what I always wanted to be. you have to accept who you are. you have to accept where you are in order to be what you want to be. if you’ve been following me you know that my life changes are a plenty. maybe 2020 will be a tame year for me. I’m just happy to be alive. happy to be a dad and a husband. happy to have the chance to see 2020 and make it the year of perfect vision come and see with me.
as always thank you for reading or not . adapt and live. You know the best part is I get to see life through my daughters eyes and her smile.